Teaching young people about dating and sex
So that’s why I guess I’m thinking about it now because I know that there’s quite an actual long period of time between when I say, “I’m ready to have children.” To actually physically having a child because, you know, you don’t know how long it’s going to actually take for conception.You know you’ve got, obviously, nine months for the birth, then you’ve got that period of a year when you have to be clean of medication.Dad reluctantly agreed, but the whole scenario left me feeling pretty ashamed.That's pretty much how I've always felt about sex -- ashamed.I've even stared down a member of the Taliban in Afghanistan when he told my escort that I was out of line for speaking too loudly in public.
Inevitably though, when asking about specifics, I become that little girl, who at 8 years old was told by my grandmother, "never let a man see you naked — even your husband." Yes, she really said that. My other grandmother, a devout Christian, had persistent, dire warnings for me: "never commit the sex sin." Then, in Mrs.
Let's put it this way, it took me a long time to be able to have the lights on during intimate moments.
But I don't think I'm alone in still finding it hard to talk openly about sex.
As the mother of two little girls, one of whom is 4 years old and constantly asking about how Mommy and Daddy made her, I know that I don't want to impart fear and shame onto my daughters when it comes to sex.
I want them, one day, to be able to enjoy it, while knowing that not being careful and communicative can have dangerous emotional and physical consequences.